If I could, I would spend all nights in the fog. Until, of course, I see someone with a hook.

The concept of being considerate to others06.06.07

Here, I would like to talk about the concept of being considerate “to” others, and not just being considerate “of” others. The idea is to not only coexist with people with different views, but to actually appreciate them and implement them and their differing views, and the concept of them doing anything they want differently than us, into our own ways of thinking and life.

I was driving on an almost empty freeway today when I noticed a very slow driver in one of the middle lanes, the same lane I was in. Even though I was within the speed limit, it seemed that I either had to change lanes to get ahead, or simply slow down. A thought came to my mind “Aaah, slow driver, move!” and then I realized: I was not being considerate of this very driver! The freeway was empty, I did not own any rights to this lane, and I could simply overtake this person if I wanted to. However, instead of doing that, I had felt as if this person driving slow in one of the middle lance was an annoying thing I had experienced. In my view, that was being inconsiderate to that other driver, who probably simply wanted to drive slowly, and safely, on a rare day when the freeway was not crowded at all.

I wonder how many times we may feel online that someone or something is annoying us, but in reality, we are just being inconsiderate. Why is it that many different views like cultures, religions, political views, and even online views on things like blogging, dictate or advice us to do something specific, but rarely, or never, tell us that we should be accommodating and considerate to others and conflicting views also.

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Group Project Entry on Inspiration Bit - Source of Inspiration - Frustration05.17.07

Vivien from Inspiration Bit invited me for this group project, called “Source of Inspiration“, and I am glad she did. This group project revolves around listing your source, or sources, of inspiration.

I will list here one source of inspiration for my blogging.

Frustration

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5 Things MyBlogLog Needs To Improve05.15.07

Discover who visits your favorite sites (including your own)!” That is what MyBlogLog states it will help you do. More and more bloggers are using MyBlogLog to find out who is visiting their sites. While the business model is so interesting that Yahoo acquired MyBlogLog, the MyBlogLog model’s value to users is itself limited and under a lot of testing. Wide adoption of a service or a product does not guarantee or mean that a service is definitely useful; it simply means that the service or the product has done good marketing and is gaining more subscribers or customers.

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Online communication may be hindering your offline communication skills05.05.07

I am slowly running into an increasing number of people in the offline world who seem to be communicating with others as if they were communicating online. These people do not realize that they have either forgotten, or do not easily realize, the proper ways to interact with others in person. Now, each individual in this world has his or her own way of interacting with others, so the “proper” way to communicate is probably relative to and for each person.

However, you can easily realize how some people are actually communicating in person as if they were communicating with someone online. While communicating online has its benefits, it has also hindered the ability of some people to communicate effectively in the offline world. Here are two examples that I have experienced in the last week alone that show how comfortableness with online communication may be negatively affecting the offline communication skills for some people.

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Advantage Rent A Car took advantage of me04.06.07

Approximately 24 hours before I left, I booked my trip via Expedia and paid Expedia for a car by Advantage Rent A Car for around 6 days. I paid the tax and the Expedia.com booking fee also for the entire trip. Everything was set. I had a printed confirmation and I was on my way. I thought I would rent the car from Advantage Rent A Car at the airport once I arrived in Los Angeles and could then start driving to go to different places to do many important things. I was wrong. Some Series of Blamable Events were about to change my entire trip. One of those events was that Advantage Rent A Car would not honor my paid reservation.

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A Series of Blamable Events03.27.07

Here is what happened today from around 5 am in Bay Area until around 11 pm in Orange County and Los Angeles. This should give you an idea about 2 different ways to look at certain days.

I woke up this morning around 5 am to get ready to head for the airport. I printed a few things on the computer and then got a ride with a friend. We left the house about 15 minutes late and got stuck in traffic. Once at the airport, the plane left about 30 minutes later because the cleaning crew was taking some time to clean the plane, and maybe also because the pilot was walking around enjoying the terminal.

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Avoid telling people they are wrong03.24.07

One of the biggest mistakes I see people making everyday is to tell someone during an argument: “You are wrong.” Those three words, when combined, have a very scary effect on people. The word “You” makes a statement very personal. The word “are” makes it sound like there is no way to argue about it. The final word is like a final blow in an action movie: “wrong” says that someone is stupid enough to not be right, since that word is coming out of someone else’s mouth with so much intensity.

Many people do not like to be told what to do, let alone be told that they are wrong. Even if a person is wrong, he/she becomes defensive because of the natural instinct of not wanting to look like a fool in front of others. That is what you make someone feel or look like, a fool, when you tell them that they are wrong so clearly. Avoid telling others they are wrong. Focus on other things instead to make your point.

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Realizing that earthquakes can hit your blog is good02.23.07

I was talking to Ronald around 3:45 pm today when my entire building started shaking. It was a minor earthquake that shook Berkeley for about 3 seconds before moving onto nearby cities. Ronald said that I should expect such things because of being in the San Francisco area, and that got me thinking: disasters and unexpected events can happen to your website at anytime, and if you realize that, you will panic less and fix any damage due to such disasters faster.

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