If I could, I would spend all nights in the fog. Until, of course, I see someone with a hook.

Thought: On sharing other’s personal information07.10.07

The same way many people share other people’s personal and private information in public, I am noticing an increasing trend online where bloggers and others will share other’s private information, entrusted only to them, in one form or another. I am also noticing that some people keep repeating the “I want to share your personal life details” behavior even when advised against it.

Sharing someone else’s personal information anywhere can be bad

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3 Reasons Why Daily Blog Tips Sucks07.08.07

With everyone wanting to blog these days, it can be hard to find something practical and concrete to apply to a blog right away in order to improve things. Daniel from Daily Blog Tips runs a nice ship called, surprise surprise, Daily Blog Tips, also known as DBT. DBT aims to help bloggers by telling them about a blog-related tip on an almost daily basis.

I like blogging, so it is interesting to see Daniel try to offer daily tips to bloggers to try their hand at different aspects of blogging. Here are 3 reasons why I think Daily Blog Tips sucks this year. Why? Because these 3 reasons are the very reasons Daily Blog Tips is and can be a very important part of the blogosphere, and the reasons I think people should be more like Daniel than like an A-lister who only wants to manipulate readers.

3 Reasons Why Daily Blog Tips Sucks

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Question: Do you like responding to all blog comments?07.08.07

Today I have a fun question that probably applies to every blogger and every blog reader and commentor. Do you like responding to each and every blog comment?

There are two main ways you can respond to blog comments. One could be as a blogger, and the other could be as a blog reader.

Responding to comments as a blogger

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Question: Do you like using MyBlogLog?07.07.07

Today’s question revolves around your view of a specific blogging service: MyBlogLog. At its simplest, MyBlogLog is a service that is supposed to help you track specific people who visit your website, along with those people’s details like name, gender, any associated website, etc. Keeping that definition of MyBlogLog in mind, do you like using MyBlogLog?

A while ago I talked about 5 things that MyBlogLog can improve. I can see some of the improvements being implemented that I recommended to Eric at MyBlogLog, like the revamped MyBlogLog community pages, where the focus is more on the related blog itself through the use of RSS feeds instead of having the RSS feed be a non-significant part of a community.

Following are some pros and cons of using MyBlogLog. If you can think of any other things, please let me know and I will update this list and give you credit.

Pros and Cons of using MyBlogLog

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5 things people assume about others online07.06.07

[This post was originally supposed to go online yesterday, but it didn't. I am not sure why; I apologize for the 3 hour-delay.]

The same way people assume things about you and other people in the offline world, many people assume things about you and others in the online world. On the internet, there can be many chances of misunderstanding things. While one of the best things to do online is to question things before assuming something, many people simply prefer assuming and stereotyping things instead of finding out the reality.

Following is a list of 5 normal things that I notice people assuming about others online on a regular basis.

5 Things People Assume About Others Online

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5 ways people copy The Reasoner07.03.07

Someone recently told me about how they love the way I run The Reasoner. A day after they told me that, that nameless-blogger took a lot of the techniques I use here on The Reasoner and applied it to her own blog, while telling her readers that she has come up with those ideas herself.

I have been blogging in various forms for more than 7 years, so it is interesting for me when someone who earns a living from their blog or someone who copies me comes along and starts claiming blog expertise as their skill.

Another person I talked to about this told me to go ahead and talk about the things that people copy from my site. It sounds weird, since I usually do not brag about myself. So, after about 15 days of hesitating and rewriting this repeatedly, and after pointing out only the things that are clearly copies from my site, I would like to present to you here 5 ways many people copy The Reasoner. Some people give credit, while others simple act as if they were born with these skills. This post is going to be the very definition of bragging on many levels, so brace yourselves!

5 Ways People Copy The Reasoner

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Question: Do you like having password-protected entries?07.01.07

This question can go along with yesterday’s question, “Why do you blog?” Depending on many reasons, including the reason you blog, you may want to have or avoid having password protected entries. On your blog, or on someone else’s blog, do you currently like having or seeing password protected entries?

Generally, you can have password protected content on personal blogs and non-personal blogs.

Password protected entries on Personal Blogs

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Question: Why do you blog?06.30.07

Today’s question can be one of the most important questions, if not the most important question, for many bloggers. Why do you blog? If you run a website which is not a blog, why do you run that website?

Different reasons you blog

There could be a lot of reasons why you may be blogging. You may do it for personal reasons, and you may be blogging for non-personal reasons. Some of the specific, different reasons you may blog is because you may want to:

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What is RSS?06.28.07

RSS Feeds are becoming very common on the internet today. Thousands of people are subscribing to RSS feeds, the same way you may have subscribed to The Reasoner Rss Feed either via e-mail or a feed reader. However, what in the world is an RSS Feed? I am writing this brief introduction for a special friend and sharing it with you also, to tell you what RSS feeds are, and how RSS Feeds work.

RSS means Really Scary Squirrel

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Question: Do you prefer no blog comments over disagreeing comments?06.24.07

This can be an important question to ask in order to realize how you want to communicate with your blog readers and commentors. Do you prefer having no comments on your blog, instead of having a lot of disagreeing comments?

The Art Of Reacting To Criticizing Comments applies to comments of almost any kind. You may be running a personal blog, a business blog, or some other kind of a blog, and may have enabled comments for the different content you post online. However, people may be disagreeing with what you say on a regular basis. Many of the disagreeing comments you receive may be very informative, yet those comments may be disagreeing with everything you have to express through your blog, all the time.

Would you prefer having no comments instead of dealing with comments and commentors that only exist to disagree with you? Do you prefer having no comments compared to having comments that disagree with you?

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Question: Do you feel obligated to blog regularly?06.23.07

This is a fun question that can apply to your personally, as it depends on both your online and offline life. Do you feel obligated to blog regularly?

You may post daily, week, or on some other fixed schedule on your blog. You may also blog around a form of a regular schedule that revolves around things other than a specific time frame itself; you may base your posting schedule around offline events, your online and offline time schedule, etc. As shown below, there could be a few reasons why you may feel obligated to post on your blog on any kind of a regular schedule.

Do you feel obligated to blog regularly, for any reason, including any of the 10 random reasons listed below?

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Thought: Online Equivalent of Homes?06.18.07

Valerie and I were looking at several real estate listings last night, both in California and Missouri. A house with 4 bedrooms was for $329,700, while another one with 5 bedrooms was for $2.7 million. One house with two garages was for around $495,990, while another one with multiple garages was for around $19 million. For a certain price, you could buy an area on this earth that could hopefully belong to your name forever, unless a meteor comes along and changes things.

Valerie and I wondered if everyone who could afford those multi-million dollar homes was a drug lord. I know some of them are, for when you go out drinking with people, some of them will reveal the things they do to make their first million. It can indeed be a good thing to go out drinking with different people; you’ll learn how people do things like dealing with illegal drugs, even in counties and cities considered the safest in the country.

Today, I am thinking about the homes and the future of the online world, and not drugs. What I am thinking about is the online equivalent of homes. What are they? What is it in the online world, that you consider as important as your house?

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Question: Do you treat online people the same as offline people?06.17.07

This should be a fun question to think about, specially if you sometimes wonder whether you are a true friend or a true business person. Do you treat the people you know online, friends and others, the same way you treat friends and others in the offline world?

I talked about the possibility of treating online friends like offline friends earlier this year, and SP and Vera offered excellent views and opinions regarding the topic, like how it can be hard to find out if a person is a true friend online, or how online friends have something in common with you. Among some other variations, you could be treating online people the same, better or a bit worse or less than the way you treat your offline friends.

Examples of treating online people the same, better or worse/less than offline people

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