If I could, I would spend all nights in the fog. Until, of course, I see someone with a hook.

Question: Why are you online at this very moment?09.15.08

Today’s question is very simple and very important one. You are most probably online at this very moment, while you read these very words. My question to you is: Why are you online at this very moment?

Finding out why you are online at this very moment

Would it not be very nice and so productive to realize the exact reason or reasons you came online to be online at this very moment? Once you realize the reason or the answer to this question that applies to you, you can realize how much you depend on the online world. That can help in realizing whether or not you can easily switch the online world for you whenever you consider it to be unnecessary, by finding out the offline replacements and alternatives to the very online reasons that make you go online in the first place.

Allow me to give some example answers and reasons to help you figure out this question more. Please feel free to be as brief or as explanatory in your answer as you wish.

Two of the many ways to see why you are online

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Thought: Question: Thinking of suing due to lack of harassment, discrimination or opposition?08.22.08

A few years ago I wrote an article titled “Discrimination against the minority and the majority by the minority in which I had found a small cartoon clip talking about sexual harassment charges stemming from the absence of such a harassment. The clip had a female character basically say to her boss: “All the other women in the office are suing you for sexual harassment. Since you haven’t sexually harassed me, I’m suing you for discrimination.

I was thinking of some things people do sue for and can try to sue someone else for, and thought of making a list of such things to enjoy. Below are 8 such things from that list. Would you think of such a thing, or do you think someone else may think of such a thing? What would be your reaction to any of such feelings if you read them in the news elsewhere? Enjoy, smile, and read on. This is a very rough thought of the question at the moment, and maybe this list can be expanded to a bigger article later on.


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  1. Kind of []
  2. *Panics and starts smiling aggressively 0_0 * []

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Physical warning labels Bes thinks should exist07.29.08

A trash warning sign at UC BerkeleyWritten and drawn warning signs: they all probably all around you. They are under your keyboard, behind your monitor, under the mouse, on a battery, on a carton of milk, on the bread packet, on your phone, and even on your cat purchase receipt which may say “This cat may attack you if cornered.” Another sign that many people encounter may not only say “Warning - Wet Surface” but also show you an outlined person falling down on a huge yellow placard sign. Who could have thought that trash cans now are moody and only like certain kinds of trash to be put inside of them?

It is not that such things happen all the time, nor is it that such things never happen. Many of these labels exist in order to reduce the number of lawsuits and legal charges brought against a company for misinformation or for not properly informing the customer or users of certain products. In this article I would like to present to you some warning labels that they should have for physical things, to add not caution to life but fun. Maybe reading such signs may prompt you to do the very thing prohibited in that sign due to finding the sign funny. Who knows. I do, by the way, at least for my ownself.

BesZ’s 15 Physical Warning Labels List


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  1. Erin suggested the sleeping pills point in the post titled “3 random annoying things people say and do without thinking much []

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The Moocher’s Guide To Riding In Bes’s Car - Part 306.01.08

As of today, the following things in my car need some form of fixing: passenger door side panel, roof bumps, internal electric discharge, seat belts, actual messy texture of the seat cloth in some areas, a bit lose gas tank chamber. All of these things were working perfectly about 2 years ago. While there are some more issues with the car, all of the above listed issues exist solely because of the passengers in my car who got a ride from me: these passengers simply experimented or acted carelessly. Because of them, my car is suffering a bit. The car runs fine, but I know the problems it has, and majority of the problems exist due to careless and selfish riders.

The total amount of money to fix these issues will be at least around $2100 as of today. Are those passengers going to team up and chip in some money to come up with the total cost? Are those passengers going to chip in their share of the cost? Are any of those passengers going to chip in even $1 as of today? No. Many passengers do not even remember anymore they did anything wrong to or in my car.

So far, I have given you 14 things people do or have done in my car, in the form of Part 1 and Part 2 of this series. Today I would like to present to you 7 more things that people have done in my car in the past, things that you should avoid when in other people’s cars.

Part 3 - Seven things for non-friends to avoid while getting a car ride from me

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The Moocher’s Guide To Riding In Bes’s Car - Part 203.29.08

I just got a ride on a plane where the driver took me all the way from Oakland to Orange County. Of course, the driver in this case wanted to be called a pilot, sat behind steel doors, charged me about $250 for the ride, told me to fasten my seat belt from time to time, gave me a small bag of mint pretzels and a cup of water with ice, told me that she/he also acted as a cook who wanted to sell me sandwiches for 5 dollars each, told me when to turn off my cell phone and when to turn it back on, told me where to sit and how to sit and where to put my belongings, among other things.

I would like to tell you some similar things happening in my car. Last time, I told you about 7 things to avoid while getting a car ride from me. Today, I would like to tell you another set of 7 things that you can try to think about and avoid. Many of these things have happened to me on a regular basis, while some have happened once or twice.

All of these apply to you whether or not you are not a good friend, with the only difference being that I can tell good friends directly about how something affects me or how something may be unwarranted or what something may mean and imply.

This is the second part in the series.

Part 2 - Seven things for non-friends to avoid while getting a car ride from me

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The Moocher’s Guide To Riding In Bes’s Car - Part 101.25.08

Cars. Many of us drive them. Many of us see them. Many of us get rides from other people. When giving someone a ride, I notice a different set of characteristic in some people that goes hand in hand with the similarities they express with a group of people who get a car ride. Many times, people who get car rides either do not know how to behave, or they simply do not want to care about the driver who is giving them a ride.

Today I would like to start a 4-post series of articles revolving around things that people do while getting a free car ride, things that they should not be doing. The articles focus on people who do not know me very well, or are not friends with me. Friends can also keep these points in mind to see whether or not their own other friends like the trends and behavior mentioned here, when they themselves are involved in giving or getting a car ride.

This is the first part of the series.

Part 1 - Seven things for non-friends to avoid while getting a car ride from me

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6 signs of Racist-R-Us11.15.07

Racism is everywhere. Stereotypes are everywhere too. Racism and discrimination do not exist only to flow from the majority to the minority; even the minority discriminates against other minorities and majorities. Many people, if not almost everyone, is guilty of racism in one form or another. “Guilty” is an interesting word here; how can we know what is right or wrong when we do not even know what is right or wrong? On top of that, how can someone be guilty of something that is probably always disagreed upon by certain people?

Today I would like to show you 6 trends I am seeing in people that results in many people becoming full-time racists. Here are 6 practical signs that you may be discriminating, and that you may in turn be having a racist attitude towards someone or certain people. By racism, I am also referring to discriminating, hating, and having a stereotypical mentality against someone or a group of people.

6 signs you are a member of the Racist-R-Us group

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10 reasons to avoid American Airlines10.13.07

American Airlines: the pride of America, according to many company officials. However, the service that American Airlines gives is varied, from being satisfactory on many levels to being bad on others. Sure, American Airlines has flights going all around the place, but the headaches that come with American Airlines make your head spin in unwanted directions also. In this article I would like to tell you 10 reasons I am going to avoid flying on American Airlines in the future.

Brief summary of my flights

To summarize a basic intro to this entire article: I had to travel to 2 different directions in 2 weeks. First, I had to go from San Francisco to Los Angeles and then back. Second, 2 days after I got back from the first trip, I had to fly to Texas and then see if I could travel to Missouri, and then to Alabama. If I could not find a connecting flight to Missouri, I was to fly straight to Alabama from Texas. The 1st and the 2nd trip were to last around 5 to 6 days each.

I am hoping I do not miss any important details, and that I remember the exact number of hours and details so that there is not any confusion below. If something doesn’t make sense, please let me know and I will have to eat a lot of chocolate and try to remember some more details.

10 reasons to avoid flying with American Airlines

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Thought: Trends of mass opening of accounts for 5 types of online services09.11.07

With more and more new online services popping up, I am getting at least 10-12 new site sign-up requests every week. I regularly wonder if many people simply open such online accounts and visit them regularly, or if they keep on opening new accounts and never visit them on a regular basis after that. Such a trend has me thinking: the online world has seen such mass hysteria of opening new accounts for different services before.

Listed below are trends of 5 different types of online services that have drawn a huge crowd after them. I have listed each trend in the order it became popular, going from the oldest and longest running trend, opening e-mail accounts, to the youngest and most famous trend today, opening social networking accounts.

5 different trends of opening 5 different types of online accounts

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Question: Would you prefer starting a business with a friend or a reliable non-friend contact?09.08.07

Today’s question can be a lot of fun and stress at the same time if you have ever thought of opening a business with someone. Would you start a business with a friend or a reliable contact who is not yet your friend?

For this question, imagine the business you want to open can be either online or offline. Also imagine that both your friend and your reliable non-friend contact specialize in the same field and can thus be suitable candidates for opening a business with. Last, imagine that the non-friend contact has shown reliability in other business situations, and that you do not know about the business reliability of your close friend; you only know that your friend is your close friend. To help you figure out the answer to this question, I will list below 3 random benefits and downsides of opening a business with either choices.

Opening business with a friend

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5 ways some Taxi Drivers create stress for other people09.04.07

Image of a yellow taxi cab miniature toy with the driver and 2 passengers inside it - the words taxi are written in blue on the outside of the taxiMany taxi drivers can cause a lot of stress for people around them. I see many taxi drivers act so aggressive daily, even when they do not have any passengers. I wonder if taxicab companies train each taxi driver in programs like “aggressiveness” and “turning your car into a fear spreading machine.

In this article I would like to describe the 5 small and indirect trends that cause people stress because of some taxi drivers. I have personally seen such behavior in many countries in at least 3 major continents. See if you can spot something you have noticed or experienced yourself.

5 ways taxi drivers can stress other people