If I could, I would spend all nights in the fog. Until, of course, I see someone with a hook.

Female stereotyping02.04.07

I was talking with a female Comcast staff today to try to get cable internet at my new temporary apartment. She kept referring to the technician who would come for the setup as the “cable guy“, and so did I. After the phone call ended, I realized how both of us had stereotyped the cable installation profession as being something that involved only men. While many people have started saying things like “postal worker” due to the increasing awareness in different fields, I wonder why so many professions and ideas are still only associated with guys. May be it is because this world still favors men on many levels.

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The flow of offline discrimination onto the internet01.15.07

I have decided to participate in the January 15th Peeve Week project . This is my first post for that project.

A website is like a house. We usually know the house owner before we visit them. Online, however, we usually get to see a website first and then come to know the author. This is a good thing, for it allows us to break away from the chains of stereotypical discrimination and instead look at someone based on their achievements in the form of their website. Having such a mentality online helps us in real life also. However, just like in real life, we usually discriminate others without realizing it many times. If we can get used to not discriminating on the web, we will be hesitant before discriminating in real life. I will summarize below two forms of discrimination that exist in the real world and also online.

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Forgetting Margaret Ruth Kidder07.10.06

The movie Superman Returns has started a frenzy of talking about how it salutes Christopher Reeve in many ways. From retaining the original music and the first two parts of the original movie to dedicating the movie itself to Reeve, the new Superman is thought to be a cherished gift for the fans of the original movies and the movie studios looking forward to the man of steel bringing in a lot of dough. Along the way, however, no one talks about the original Lois Lane played by Margaret Ruth Kidder, better known as Margot Kidder. Kidder went through big hurdles in her life in the forms of having bipolar disorder. That’s a bit along the same path as Reeve who spent the later part of this life trying to find a treatment for the paralysis that he went experienced. How come the main female character who was in all the original Superman series gets no recognition or mention in the press or the new movie, whereas the main male character keeps getting mentioned repeatedly in almost every newspaper in the world? Shouldn’t both characters be mentioned together?

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Stereotypical gender bias and sales - a reflection05.06.06

Whenever I go to buy something with a female friend, I notice that the salespeople usually talk to me more than my friend. Most of the time, this happens because of the assumption that I’m the one who will be paying and thus, I’m the one who needs to be convinced that making that purchase will be a very good thing to do. For the sake of this post, whenever the words ’sex’ and ‘gender’ are used, we shall assume two things. We shall assume that the word ’sex’ refers to the actual biological nature of a human being : male or female. We shall also assume that the word ‘gender’ refers to the characteristics found in a human being that are usually attributed to a specific sex.

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Mankind, womankind, humankind09.08.05

We live in an advanced society. We are supposedly living in the most advanced era in history. Man has moved out from the confinements of the caves where he seldom came out because of eating food or drawing on the walls and moved into the confinements of the high rise buildings where he seldom comes out because of eating pizza or playing games and watching television. There are several things that have changes, and several things that have remained the same, as time has passed. The very element of “mankind” has remained the same so far; man is still considered superior to the “female” species, since mankind is all about, well, “man”, and not “womankind.”

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