Series – 5th sign you are a moody $%^#!@ – you are rude to people who are not rich
This is part of the series:
- Series – 10 signs you are a moody $%^#!@
- Series – 1st sign you are a moody $%^#!@
- Series – 8th sign you are a moody $%^#!@ – you act rude to people because of ethnicity
- Series – 2nd sign you are a moody $%^#!@
- Series – 3rd sign you are a moody $%^#!@ – you are rude to a specific sex
- Series – 9th sign you are a moody $%^#!@ – you act moody because of various frustrations
- Series – 10th sign you are a moody $%^#!@ – you act moody because of moody people
- Series – 4th sign you are a moody $%^#!@ – you are rude to people who do not share same religious views
- Series – 5th sign you are a moody $%^#!@ – you are rude to people who are not rich
- Series – 6th sign you are a moody $%^#!@ – you do not stand by what you say
- Series – 7th sign you are a moody $%^#!@ – you act rude to people because of politics
This is the fifth post in a series of posts titled “10 signs you are a moody $%^#!@..” You can also read what I wrote for the first, second, third and the fourth signs. Thank you.
The 5th sign is here, and so are you. Good. Please take a deep breath, push aside all and any moodiness you may have, and continue reading. Following is the 5th sign that you may be a moody $%^#!@.
5 : You love talking to rich people, while you act weird and rude around everyone else
You may be a moody person if you act nicely only around publicly known rich and prominent people, while acting rude on purpose around other people simply because of the fact that those other people are not rich or do not talk about ways to make money. You may think that being nice only to prominent people is the same as looking up to a role model. It is not the same thing. Looking up to people does not mean you have to be rude to innocent people you barely know, like the people who do not blog about ways to make money. Following is a simple example of how such people are simply moody because of their own frustration of not knowing how to communicate effectively with everyone.
Example of the world of online blogging and commenting where you act nice only on prominent blogs and are responsive only to comments by prominent bloggers
You may see this online all the time. Many bloggers and commentors will go around commenting only on blogs run by really rich or really famous bloggers who talk about ways to make money. At the same time, these bloggers and commentors will either ignore or act rude towards everyone else who is not so rich or famous. The way these people act rude is by disagreeing and making the not so prominent or not so rich people look bad, not replying to their e-mails or comments in a nice way, or even by ignoring them completely, while at the same time treating any comment, blog post or e-mail by a prominent blogger with extreme happiness and respect. These people simply do not treat all online people equally.
Sucking up to rich and prominent people may be fine, but don’t pass on your rudeness and moodiness onto other innocent people
You are simply a moody person who does not know how to act around people who do not talk about the thing you are obsessed about: money. Online, you value five comments or e-mails consisting of only “hi” by rich bloggers more than 10 detailed, informative and useful comments or e-mails by everyone else. The mere fact that you cut off ties with people who do not claim to make a lot of money while shielding the rich and prominent people from your rude character means you have personal issues, and you are venting your inner frustration on innocent people who, in your view, are not out there trying to make you money. That is pure moodiness mixed with some kind of a psychological disturbance within you, in my view.
What do you think of moody people who are nice only to rich and prominent people?
What is your opinion on this? What do you think about people who are nice only to prominent people? What do you think of this sign of moodiness? Do you think it is ok for a person to act rude to online people who are supposedly not that prominent while drooling at the same time over comments or attention bestowed by prominent bloggers?
Because of some very interesting comments by Vivien [inspirationbit] recently, I have come to realize that I should ask this question in order to learn something myself also: do you think the signs I am mentioning are signs of moodiness, and do you see what kind of things I am trying to label as being moody so far? Or do you think something else is going on here?
Thank you for reading so far. I would like to invite you to come back tomorrow so that I can tell you about the 6th sign that classifies people as being moody in my view: repeatedly saying some things one day, and then not standing by what you said the next day!
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( April 21st, 2007 at 9:26 am )
This post made me re-consider the “moody” labeling. I think the people to whom you refer as being “moody” are simply rude or psychologically unstable or that’s the kind of people they are. But their ill-mannered behaviour might affect some people and make them “moody”.
Perhaps I’m wrong, but I assess the word “moody” as a temporary feeling caused by someone’s inappropriate actions, or by watching certain movies, listening moody music, or simply by certain weather conditions (like too much rain and no hope for sun).
But I completely agree with you – people who suck to prominent bloggers look pathetic and when they ignore non-prominent bloggers/commentors they risk loosing respect of their peers and readers.
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( April 21st, 2007 at 1:58 pm )
In these cases you’ve presented, I think the people you described as ‘moody’ are perhaps identified as what the person really is.
I think that’s plain stupid for people who choose their pick of who to talk to, it just lowers the amount of ‘friends’ you can possibly make!
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( April 22nd, 2007 at 1:35 pm )
Vivien [inspirationbit], good point. Such points may make others who notice them moody.
You are not wrong; you are right about what moody implies. I think I am confusing: what I was trying to say is that these people may think they have some logic or some logical reason behind their behavior, but in reality, they are simply moody due to various reasons and are allowing their moodiness, or uncontrollable moods, to let out whatever anger or frustration they have, on innocent people.
Yes, people who suck up to someone while being rude to everyone else look pathetic when they can simply be normal otherwise. Why not be nice to everyone, while being a bit extra nice to prominent bloggers? At least that way everyone will be treated nicely.
There are so many of such comments and bloggers, I am making a list daily, writing down urls or info for such online people who act nice only around rich people while being rude around everyone else. They think they are professionals, but it looks childish and something like a communication disability to me, among other things.
Vera, you have a good point. Maybe such people are really the type of people they appear to be when they are moody.
I am guessing this happens a lot in some other areas also. Some people may only talk to people of a specific ethnicity, while others may only talk nicely to people of a specific sex [bringing us to the other "rude to a specific sex" sign].
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( April 25th, 2007 at 1:46 pm )
I’m not rude to people that aren’t rich because I don’t want to be rude to myself. Well, that and the fact that I just don’t like to be rude to people at all anyway.
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( April 28th, 2007 at 9:18 pm )
Thanks for the comment Court, and good point. Similarly, the reason I try not to be rude to others is because I know how it feels like when people are rude to me for no reason.
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( July 19th, 2008 at 5:33 am )
MOODY PEOPLE SOME TIMES THEY FEEL LIKE SITTING ALONE DON’T WANNA TALK TO ANYONE PLAY MOODY MUSIC AND IF YOU TRY TO TALK TO THEM THEY WOULD JUST SHUT UP AND SOME TIMES CRY WITH NO REASON .
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