Series – 3rd sign you are a moody $%^#!@ – you are rude to a specific sex
This is part of the series:
- Series – 10 signs you are a moody $%^#!@
- Series – 1st sign you are a moody $%^#!@
- Series – 8th sign you are a moody $%^#!@ – you act rude to people because of ethnicity
- Series – 2nd sign you are a moody $%^#!@
- Series – 3rd sign you are a moody $%^#!@ – you are rude to a specific sex
- Series – 9th sign you are a moody $%^#!@ – you act moody because of various frustrations
- Series – 10th sign you are a moody $%^#!@ – you act moody because of moody people
- Series – 4th sign you are a moody $%^#!@ – you are rude to people who do not share same religious views
- Series – 5th sign you are a moody $%^#!@ – you are rude to people who are not rich
- Series – 6th sign you are a moody $%^#!@ – you do not stand by what you say
- Series – 7th sign you are a moody $%^#!@ – you act rude to people because of politics
This is the third post in a series of posts titled “10 signs you are a moody $%^#!@..” You can also read what I wrote for the first and the second signs. Thank you.
I am so happy that you are still with me on the day that marks the 3rd time we are going to dive into a moody topic that shows why some people may be moody. As usual, please leave your moodiness at the door. If I made you moody, seek some help, and then please keep on reading.
Here we go! Following is the 3rd sign that you may be a moody person.
3 : You act rude only around people of a certain sex
If you act rude around a certain sex all the time, you may be a moody person on your way to being a person who discriminates. Because of some past experience, you are being moody and rude to all the people of that specific sex. Consider the following examples that will show why such a behavior makes you a moody person, and why such a thing can turn you into a person who discriminates.
How bad relationships caused a guy and a girl to hate everyone from the opposite sex
- Moody to all guys: I once helped a friend get out of an abusive relationship where the abuse had resulted in a miscarriage and several permanent scars on her body. She does not even feel comfortable shaking hands with guys anymore. Even though she likes hanging out with me, she will think twice before wanting to even hug or something. She thinks every guy [probably except me] is out to torture and then abuse women in relationships.
- Moody to all females and relationship: One of my previous housemates had a huge crush on one of his classmates for more than a year. Finally, one day, while drinking with her and her friends, he hinted openly that he would love to date her. The girl just responded with a “HAHA” and carried on with another topic, resulting in everyone laughing at the guy. Even though it was not intended as an insult, he took it to heart. From that day onward, he looked at girls as being “slutty” sex objects, and every relationship as either a one-day or even a one-week stand.
Past experiences can make you so moody, you might start discriminating against a specific sex
In my view, both of the above cases are examples of allowing your past to make you moody, and to allow such moodiness to affect and control your life. That is a disability, unfortunately, as it may result in you discriminating against innocent people. Bad experiences can cause people to feel moody around some people, but their own actions result in them hating and discriminating innocent people. In my view, you should avoid having relationships with such people unless you are willing to help them with their moodiness. Why? Because they are confused and unstable in at least the arena and concept of relationships, and they need serious help.
What do you think of such people?
What do you think about this? Do you have a stereotype and maybe even grudge against all people of a specific sex? Do you think such a characteristic is moody and not justified, or do you think it is moody and justified? Do you even think such a thing is moodiness?
As I always request and beg of you, please come back tomorrow, when I will try an even more different writing method to have an even shorter post than this post, to talk about the 4th sign that you may be moody: acting rude around people who do not share the same religious beliefs as you!
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( April 18th, 2007 at 10:46 pm )
I personally wouldn’t call this behaviour as moodiness. I can’t think of a word that can describe it the best, but it’s rather a natural defensive mechanism in action than moodiness.
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( April 19th, 2007 at 12:20 am )
Good point. Yes, such a moodiness is actually a psychological thing because of past experiences [one example]. However, I also want to draw attention that many people simply get away with such a behavior by calling it moody and stuff.
You may have another good point there too: it is probably more of a psychological “defense mechanism” to screen out “evil” than to be moody. Do you think the two can be combined [being moody on purpose in order to be cautious] for many people?
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( April 19th, 2007 at 8:45 am )
Yes, the two can be combined, and now that I think of it, I knew people who’re rude to the opposite sex on purpose – just to get the attention and appear to be “cool”.
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( April 19th, 2007 at 2:12 pm )
Good point, that some people do it just to get attention and be “cool.” Gangster-wannabes? Show-off’s? Or maybe just acting like that to attract more people from the opposite sex?
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( April 19th, 2007 at 8:59 pm )
Being moody to the opposite sex has never helped attract them to me. Maybe I’m not moody enough?
Well, if I want to learn how to treat women badly, all I have to do is listen to the rap station for an hour and I’ll be ready to go.
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( April 20th, 2007 at 11:33 am )
lol Ronalfy.
I am sure you are not moody enough. Also, you can be a “rap-star” wanna be teenager [male/female] and act moody, and see how some folks will flock your way.
Paul should be the only radio dj in the world! Hmmmm, ok, j/k.
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( April 20th, 2007 at 2:17 pm )
I didn’t say that being rude (or moody) to the opposite sex will help you to attract them, I just said that some people think it would. I personally don’t like men being rude with me, and I don’t really understand women who might like such “moody” men.
So Ronald, I’m not sure that you would really like to attract a woman who likes you being rude/moody with her, would you?
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( April 20th, 2007 at 5:45 pm )
Yes, you didn’t say that. I asked that as a question, as sometimes I really look at some people [teenagers mostly] and they seem to be depending on the fact that being moody and hard to get will really attract someone.
Also, by saying moody in my comment, I was aiming mainly at many teenager gangster-wannabes who act moody on purpose to appear macho to girls, and also many teenager show-off girls who act moody on purpose so that guys will think they are so hot they are hard to get [see the stereotype I used for each case?
]. I think, if we can observe such a teenager characteristic, which may not even be moodiness but swings in public moods on purpose just to achieve something selfish at the cost of comfort of someone else, we can easily see how even more adults [than teenagers] act similarly in everyday life, both at work and outside the workplace. Teenagers aren’t evil, but they are good example setters for this case. 
PS: my “moody” post for today may not go live until around midnight. I hope that does not affect any plans for any of the regular readers here.
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( April 21st, 2007 at 9:35 am )
hmm.. interesting! I never thought this would be called moody, but I never really came across anybody who had grudges with the opposite sex..maybe they hid it well?
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( April 22nd, 2007 at 1:29 pm )
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( April 24th, 2007 at 3:13 pm )
Hm, yeah, I would assume they are having a bad day.. unless they are repeatedly showing this lol.. i think they act according to how they feel whether something hindered this action or not..
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( April 28th, 2007 at 9:14 pm )
Yes, if they are repeatedly showing this then it is less “having a bad day” and more “I am usually like this regardless of the day“, unless the person is really bad or something at not letting something that they run into everyday affect their mood.
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( December 25th, 2009 at 11:05 am )
Thank you, it was interesting. Have more to these posts.
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