Stop hiding from people if you want a happier life and if you want happiness.
There is no other way to emphasize something as important as this without stating it directly. Regardless of your goals, wants or needs, this one major negative element in your life will ultimately affect everything else in your life negatively.
In fact, this major element of hiding from people in your life, is what affects your daily life, all your actions, and your future.
We prefer hiding from people. We do it daily. We accept it as being so normal that we do not even think about its existence. We just react to it as if we had a life dedicated to hiding from others. This fear that makes us hide from others, for any reason, is actually making us fail at almost every great opportunity that comes our way. For every person we claim we like hanging out with, there are probably 2 people out there we hide from.
Phone, emails, txts, in person, on the road, online, people around us, etc: we like hiding for various reasons wherever we are. We hide from bill collectors, people who honk at us, people we find annoying, people who forward us annoying emails, other students who may make fun of us, kids who may bully us at parties, and many other groups of people. When we hide from others, everything we do in life revolves around the fact that we’re afraid. How can our life be productive, minimalistic, or even happy when it is based around fear?
Such fear ensures that all your goals, dreams and efforts in life are always inferior to what they could be.
While we may not be able to control the outcome of an uncomfortable situation, we can definitely change the way we react to people related to the situations in question.
Chill. Relax.
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