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Question: Why has air travel become the worst way of traveling? (No Comments yet - Add yours! →)


During the late 90’s, airline travel was considered the most exotic form of travel for majority of the human population. It was prestigious to go traveling around the world, or even to a neighboring city, and telling your friends that you traveled by air. “Wow, you sat in the business class? Nice!” is what I used to say when I would hear others talking about getting free upgrades to business class on a vacation.

Today, if you tell people about flying to your vacation last week, they will either say “Nice! How was the vacation?” or “Aaaah, which airport did you take? Was it ok?” It is as if traveling by air now automatically creates a feeling in our heads that if you are not a terrorist, you will be punished through other means for wanting to travel by air. Why has air travel become the worst way of traveling for many?

Take off your shoes, infidel!

02.08.10 By Bes. Posted in General with No Comments yet →


Question: Why do you care about skin color? (11 Comments →)


Why do we care about skin color?What kind of emotions do you feel when you see the color black? What kind of emotions do you feel when you see other colors? If you feel a particular emotion when staring at a black color, do you also feel the same emotions when looking at a black car, a black person or the black sky at night? Today, I am briefly wondering about the idea of caring about your own skin color and the skin color of other people.

Why do you care about people of a certain skin color?

Why do you tend to care more about people of certain color when they appear on TV? Why do you feel unsafe around people of a certain color? Would you have watched “The X-Files” if both the actors were of a different skin color? Would you have cared as much about the destruction in Haiti if it was a city in Sweden and everyone suffering was solely white?

01.28.10 By Bes. Posted in General with 11 Comments →


10 Rude Things Waiters Do To You (59 Comments →)


Your WaiterThere is one person in the world that you usually end up allowing to disturb you while you are eating. This same person is the one that can come in to ask, interrupt, take or bring anything, while you eat and talk to others at your food table. This someone is your waiter. Your waiter, in addition to bringing you a lot of food and drooling, can also bring in a lot of weird habits that fall into the category of being rude to you.

The real job of a waiter is to bring you food, and is to make your food experience a good one so that you can enjoy your food. The existence of tips is one of the reasons many waiters simply focus on a set standard of things aimed to satisfy the typical standards of many restaurants like making sure your water glass is always full, that you have clean plates, and that you are not angry at or with your food at any moment. Such focus has resulted in many waiters not knowing that throwing a plate full of food at you, for you to catch, is not the same as putting the food plate in front of you.

Here are 10 rude things that many waiters do on a regular basis. I notice these trends at so many locations that sometimes I feel I should ask such waiters if they could be featured on my site for bad or rude service.

Ten rude things waiters do to you

12.12.09 By Bes. Posted in General with 59 Comments →


Google Voice Invites For You (54 Comments →)


Google VoiceHere it is again. Another Google service invite for you at The Reasoner. Today I want you to try Google Voice.

The next service Google wishes to use to try and revolutionize your existing home and cell phone calls and text messages. If you are wondering what Google Voice is, you can refer to Google Voice Help to find out more.

I have a couple of Google Voice invites available. If you need a Google Voice invite, please leave a comment below. Your comment requires a valid e-mail address, so I will use that e-mail address to send you a Google Voice invite. It may take some time for everyone to get an invite, depending on how many invite requests I get and how many new Google Voice invites I get from Google in my invites bank.

The invites are completely free. If you wish, feel free to please make a donation, or donate your house, car, or something else. I do not accept squirrels as donations, by the way.

Enjoy! And remember, please call responsibly. Smile

11.05.09 By Bes. Posted in Online with 54 Comments →


How You Can Send Effective Texts In 10 Ways (19 Comments →)


Effective text messages by you in 10 waysThere is one thing you may want to touch more than everything else every day. This “thing” may be something you touch more often than even a regular desktop or laptop keyboard. This thing is the cell phone keypad or keyboard, and you most probably touch it intensively to send text messages.

Today, you and I are going to learn about texting effectively. It is very easy to simply send a single word or an essay via a text message. It may, however, be a bit hard to realize what the proper etiquette of text messaging are. After you understand and realize these 10 important ways to send effective text messages, your text messaging habits can actually change to make text messaging another part of the common sense part of your life.

How you can send effective text messages in 10 ways

10.30.09 By Bes. Posted in General with 19 Comments →


The Swine Flu Love Memories (17 Comments →)


Looney Tunes Swine Flu - Porky The PigToday I can say with full confidence that in addition to living the hardest and most complexly simple and complex life within myself, I am also living the hardest and most complex life externally. The Swine Flu. What a beautiful name to a mysterious thing. The Mexican Flu. The H4561 flu. Whatever it is called, it is the final sign that anyone alive today, 2009, faces the biggest epidemic risk from a natural disease that we have seen so far in our life in the media, and on a massive scale. No longer do we have to listen to stories that start with “Back in the day, we had people left and right getting sick” in order to start realizing the meaning of everything. It is happening today, here, right now. One day you may be telling friends, family and strangers about the Swine Flu “back in the day.

This article, including the above part, was written on April 30th, 2009, around 1am. It was lost in the catacombs of The Reasoner trenches that are wanting to see the light of the day until today, when Katie noticed it on my computer and told me to go ahead and post it. So here it is, unedited in its writing.

10.13.09 By Bes. Posted in Life with 17 Comments →


Why are you not allowed to delete all of your online accounts? (12 Comments →)


Delete keyYou see them everywhere. They tell you to perform an action. They tell you to associate yourself with a certain brand name in order to get benefits. These things are signs, signs of different kinds telling you to create accounts and memberships on different websites so that you can be able to post comments and view private content. Whether they are images with the words “Sign up!” or written words saying “Create a free account“, the signs to entice you into signing up are everywhere.

What many of such signs and websites forget to tell you is that once you open an account, it may be impossible to ever close and delete your account and any private information from such sites. Today we ponder over the question: Why do many websites and online services not allow you to close and delete your account?

Easy to create your online account. Impossible to delete it?

10.06.09 By Bes. Posted in Online with 12 Comments →


20 Professions With Almost No Females (14 Comments →)


Gender Male FemaleEvery day, you may encounter a myriad of people that work in different fields and areas. Taxi drivers, cop, bus drivers, teachers, news reporters, chefs, cashiers and more. Almost everyone you see working is either a male or a female or something close to that. If you observe closely and divide each person you see and their job title according to their sex, you may notice a trend where certain jobs have more males and other jobs have more females.

Today, I want to share with you the 20 professions that I feel are dominated by males. There is nothing wrong with a male-dominated profession, and there is nothing with a female-dominated profession. The interesting observations start when we start to analyze the reasons why such a one-sided domination exists.

20 Professions We Rarely See Females In

09.27.09 By Bes. Posted in General with 14 Comments →


Why do you sympathize with suicide attempts only if they involve celebrities? (10 Comments →)


Halle Berry - She attempted suicide in 1996

Halle Berry attempted suicide in 1996

Life. Many seem to have it. Many more seem to want it. And many seem to let go of it. Suicide. Suicide is a word that is feared by many people. Even though suicide may take more courage and energy than the lifetime struggles of a person, suicide is usually seen in the Western parts of the world as being one of the last, cowardly resorts to give up the idea of dealing with hardships in life.

Today I want to bring up the question of how we deal with someone who has attempted suicide. To be precise, I want you to think about your behavior over celebrities attempting suicide. Why do you, or others, sympathize with celebrities who try to commit suicide, and why do you, or others, laugh, ridicule and classify as psychotic almost all the non-celebrities who try to commit suicide?

Is a suicide attempt by a celebrity different from other suicide attempts? Do you treat celebrities who attempted suicide the same way you would treat a non-celebrity hospital patient who attempted suicide? Why, and why not?

Why do we frown over suicide in general?

09.19.09 By Bes. Posted in General with 10 Comments →


28 Things Learnt From Ingluorious Basterds (15 Comments →)


Inglourious Basterds official movie poster 1 - by Quentin Tarantino, starring Brad PittLong time ago, there was a big war. A war that covered most of the world. A war that affected many people. A war that also resulted in many people simply leading on their regular lives while realizing that a war may be going on in the world. And before 2009, there were other big wars too. The last big war of the world, the biggest of them all since then in many proportions, and separate from the war you had with your family or friends this week, has probably been World War II.

World War II, while focusing mainly on the expansion of Germany and German-Allies forces, also took a very strange turn when it focused, as one of its main primary objectives, in the elimination of the Jewish Population. Antisemitism had reached one of the bigger peaks among the German populations and media, and this resulted in majority of the population, and the military, supporting a big action taken on behalf of Hitler: to jail and kidnap all Jewish presence in German-occupied lands, and to eventually kill all Jewish people as part of Hitler’s “final solution.”

Today I would like to talk a bit about 28 things I learnt from the movie “Ingluorious Basterds“, by Quentin Tarantino, and how it compares to history and our senses.

09.05.09 By Bes. Posted in Media with 15 Comments →


Should Employers and Interviewers Check Your MySpace, Facebook, Twitter, And Other Social Profiles? (19 Comments →)


Spying on Myspace users? (by Lorri37)Today and tonight, millions of people across the world will be getting ready for a job interview tomorrow. You yourself may be thinking of your next job, or thinking of your performance at your existing place of work. At the same time, you may probably be wondering as to how a future interviewer, employer, or an existing employer may view your job integrity based on how you act outside of work. In today’s world, where the online activities seems to be slowly getting more attention than life itself in several circles, many people say that it is important for you to realize how your online activities can hurt your existing or future job opportunities. I want to ask you if you think employers and interviewers should pay any attention to your online social profiles which reside outside of your work.

Today I ask a very important question that applies directly to you: Should employers and interviewers look at your MySpace, Facebook, Flickr and other social online profiles in order to judge your work and related performance and integrity?

Poll for you and your future and existing job:

»   Should employers check your Facebook, MySpace, Twitter and other social networking accounts when evaluating your working abilities?

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08.25.09 By Bes. Posted in Life, Online with 19 Comments →


If you die, what will happen to your online accounts? (20 Comments →)


Dead duckieIf you disappear from the public view in the offline world, people may notice. Those that want to know where you are, or how you are, may call you or visit your home in person. In the online world, however, unless you have listed your offline contact information, the only way to contact you is through the online world.

What would happen if you died, and the online people had no other information about your existence other than your online accounts? If you died, would anyone online know that you simply stopped breathing, or would people assume that you simply decided to spend more time offline? What will happen to your online accounts after your death?

Noticing your offline disappearance online

Dying in the offline world can instantly mean that you would not be logging into any of your online accounts, unless your computer is already logged in and someone else starts using your computer. If it is your tendency, and habit, to be offline for many days, people online may not notice your absence until it has been a bit longer than usual amount of time, like weeks or months.

08.12.09 By Bes. Posted in Life, Online with 20 Comments →


Series – The concept of “Normal” – What is it? (13 Comments →)


This entry is part 1 of 0 in the series The concept of "Normal" - A Series

Recently, while pondering over the idea of what the society dictates for others to follow, Marie Lianne and myself were discussing the idea of what “normal” means in the society. The concept of normal applies to most of the things in our daily lives, even when we do not use that word. If people consider something to be acceptable by the majority, it seems like a normal thing to do, or a normal phenomenon. If there is anything that many people would consider irregular, or not a naturally recurring phenomenon that can be accepted easily, people consider it to be something far from normal.

Guy riding a very small tricycle - is this normal? - Picture by Marie Lianne for the "The concept of "normal"" SeriesLook at the picture in this paragraph for a very gentle example. Would you consider what the guy in the picture is doing a “normal” thing that guys his age and size do? I do, because I would want to do that and more myself. How about you? What do you consider normal about this picture? What do you consider abnormal about this picture?

This is the first in a series of articles revolving around the concept of normality, and what “normal” is considered to be. Today, this article will briefly focus on thoughts that revolve around the meaning of the word “Normal.”

Does the word “normal” have an acceptable, normal meaning?

07.23.09 By Bes. Posted in Life with 13 Comments →



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